[Oh.. shit. This was awkward, but maybe he could still do some good here. Hopefully?]
Era that's bullshit. You're talking like a child who didn't get what she wanted and is throwing a tantrum. Stop it. I was trying to get you to admit you do care about Noctis because clearly you do. You wouldn't have brought up this story if you didn't. So if you care about him then you have to deal with Pyra.
And how exactly have you tried to make it work? Did you tell her that it bothered you she wasn't sharing personal things like you were before blowing up? Did you give her some time to correct the behavior or offer some help if she was struggling to do that? Did you give her a chance to explain why it might be hard for her? That's what an adult would do.
Are you at all aware of how self-centered all of what you're telling me is? What happened to you is awful and it's disgusting someone would do that to you. Pyra didn't do it! She didn't come close to doing that. If she reminded you of that then that's a screw that's loose in your brain from your condition, not something she's done. She's a good person and I don't believe some like Noctis would be with anyone who would do anything to intentionally hurt you like that. Do you?
Look, I'm not saying she's perfect. I know her and yeah, it is frustrating she won't open up. You don't have the monopoly on suffering, Era. As bad as it feels and as horrible a thing as you've endured, Pyra just might have been through something worse. We don't know. She hasn't told us. It's her right not to tell us. She doesn't owe that to us. If she hasn't told you, then you haven't made her feel safe enough to tell you or you haven't given her enough time and that's your fault. If you told her anything that was your choice. Take ownership of your actions. Time to put your big girl pants on.
Ardyn? No, I'm talking about your boyfriend and your husband. Ardy = Ardbert and Sully = Solus zos Galvus. Who the hell is Hades and those other three?
It might be the best for you while you're still working through these issues that you leave them alone. There's a difference though between being an adult and leaving someone alone and being a child about it. An adult simply does it because it's about healing themselves and doesn't need to make a declaration about it or text the person a hundred times reminding them that they're being ignored. A child's is all about hurting the other person and sends passive aggressive messages and will hide in the closet while being on a voice chat with someone so they look so pitiful and helpless. Which one are you going to do?
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Era that's bullshit. You're talking like a child who didn't get what she wanted and is throwing a tantrum. Stop it. I was trying to get you to admit you do care about Noctis because clearly you do. You wouldn't have brought up this story if you didn't. So if you care about him then you have to deal with Pyra.
And how exactly have you tried to make it work? Did you tell her that it bothered you she wasn't sharing personal things like you were before blowing up? Did you give her some time to correct the behavior or offer some help if she was struggling to do that? Did you give her a chance to explain why it might be hard for her? That's what an adult would do.
Are you at all aware of how self-centered all of what you're telling me is? What happened to you is awful and it's disgusting someone would do that to you. Pyra didn't do it! She didn't come close to doing that. If she reminded you of that then that's a screw that's loose in your brain from your condition, not something she's done. She's a good person and I don't believe some like Noctis would be with anyone who would do anything to intentionally hurt you like that. Do you?
Look, I'm not saying she's perfect. I know her and yeah, it is frustrating she won't open up. You don't have the monopoly on suffering, Era. As bad as it feels and as horrible a thing as you've endured, Pyra just might have been through something worse. We don't know. She hasn't told us. It's her right not to tell us. She doesn't owe that to us. If she hasn't told you, then you haven't made her feel safe enough to tell you or you haven't given her enough time and that's your fault. If you told her anything that was your choice. Take ownership of your actions. Time to put your big girl pants on.
Ardyn? No, I'm talking about your boyfriend and your husband. Ardy = Ardbert and Sully = Solus zos Galvus. Who the hell is Hades and those other three?
It might be the best for you while you're still working through these issues that you leave them alone. There's a difference though between being an adult and leaving someone alone and being a child about it. An adult simply does it because it's about healing themselves and doesn't need to make a declaration about it or text the person a hundred times reminding them that they're being ignored. A child's is all about hurting the other person and sends passive aggressive messages and will hide in the closet while being on a voice chat with someone so they look so pitiful and helpless. Which one are you going to do?