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runs_on_batteries) wrote2022-02-14 12:37 am
runs_on_batteries) wrote2022-02-14 12:37 am
IC Inbox/ Interactions 2.0
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I did mention I had some skill with sorcery.
[There's a shrug with his words - he'll understand if Tony had tuned out his list of accomplishments to some extent during their first conversation, and even if not "sorcery" isn't always something that might be associated with "teleportation".
His own outfit, meanwhile, is a step or two up on the scale of casualness. Dark-colored pants and what seems to be a sweatervest, boots, and a long coat with fur trim around the edges comprise the bulk of it. His gloves, meanwhile - and he is wearing some, though they appear to be more for aesthetic purposes than to stave off the early spring chill - are white, in contrast to the darker colors present in the rest of his outfit.]
And in any case, a magitek bit would be entirely too small to do so - you would be able to hold one both hands without significant difficulty.
[There's a shrug with his words - he'll understand if Tony had tuned out his list of accomplishments to some extent during their first conversation, and even if not "sorcery" isn't always something that might be associated with "teleportation".
His own outfit, meanwhile, is a step or two up on the scale of casualness. Dark-colored pants and what seems to be a sweatervest, boots, and a long coat with fur trim around the edges comprise the bulk of it. His gloves, meanwhile - and he is wearing some, though they appear to be more for aesthetic purposes than to stave off the early spring chill - are white, in contrast to the darker colors present in the rest of his outfit.]
And in any case, a magitek bit would be entirely too small to do so - you would be able to hold one both hands without significant difficulty.
Is having no sense of humor one of the things you bond with Era over?
[He stepped back and gestured for the man to enter. As with most of these townhouses, the layout was pretty similar. However, the living room had been painted a pleasant shade of light blue. The kitchen off to the side had a latte color and both smelled like these were recent additions.]
Make yourself at home. The zip drive's on the coffee table.
[Just as he was saying that, the whistle of a kettle could be heard from the kitchen.]
Let me go get that, do you take anything with your tea?
[He stepped back and gestured for the man to enter. As with most of these townhouses, the layout was pretty similar. However, the living room had been painted a pleasant shade of light blue. The kitchen off to the side had a latte color and both smelled like these were recent additions.]
Make yourself at home. The zip drive's on the coffee table.
[Just as he was saying that, the whistle of a kettle could be heard from the kitchen.]
Let me go get that, do you take anything with your tea?
He sighed and leaned back with a shake of his head. "No, nothing." And then he pulled himself up from his seat and went back to the counter to finish making his sandwich and his tea. Their conversation was over, he guessed, if Tony was leaving. So he'd make himself his food and his drink and take himself back to his room and... What?
Gladio just didn't know what they were doing. He didn't understand why this was so hard and why they kept misunderstanding each other. He had no experience with this. He'd never been in a relationship like this before. Especially since this wasn't a relationship.
He was getting a headache.
Gladio just didn't know what they were doing. He didn't understand why this was so hard and why they kept misunderstanding each other. He had no experience with this. He'd never been in a relationship like this before. Especially since this wasn't a relationship.
He was getting a headache.
Hello,
Video messaging makes me uncomfortable, though if it is your preference over text would a compromise of audio be permissible?
I cannot use audio today as my voice is still doing the thing, however I will keep your communication preferences in mind and abide by them whenever I am capable.
Video messaging makes me uncomfortable, though if it is your preference over text would a compromise of audio be permissible?
I cannot use audio today as my voice is still doing the thing, however I will keep your communication preferences in mind and abide by them whenever I am capable.
Or a normal person would say, 'Hi Tony, how are you doing?'
What's up Era? And I don't really care anymore. Just do the text.
What's up Era? And I don't really care anymore. Just do the text.
Hi Tony, how are you doing?
I thought it would be more polite to establish your preference before initiating further conversation. Was that incorrect?
Is 'how are you doing?' better to use than 'I hope you are well'?
I have always used the former as I do not want anyone to feel that I am prying, or any obligation to answer such a question, while also informing them that their state of well-being matters to me. Does it read as too disinterested and dismissive?
I thought it would be more polite to establish your preference before initiating further conversation. Was that incorrect?
Is 'how are you doing?' better to use than 'I hope you are well'?
I have always used the former as I do not want anyone to feel that I am prying, or any obligation to answer such a question, while also informing them that their state of well-being matters to me. Does it read as too disinterested and dismissive?
I think you should quit worrying so much what other people think and just do your best. If they know you and care about you, they'll know your intentions are in the right spot and you don't have to do all that preamble.
Both 'how are you' and 'I hope you are well' are both good. Don't be afraid to pry. Friends pry. It's one of the perks.
Both 'how are you' and 'I hope you are well' are both good. Don't be afraid to pry. Friends pry. It's one of the perks.
...
[He stared at the phone for a moment and then rolled his eyes and laughed.
He stepped back from Mark 85 and shook his head. In the next few moments, Era would receive a picture of Tony in the backyard standing over a metal contraption he was clearly working on. His hair was messy and there was a smudge of grease on his jaw and forehead. He had jeans and a slightly dusty and sweaty t-shirt on. He had a wrench in one hand and was giving her a wave with the other. Besides all that, he gave her a smile.]
Just me. I'm not sure where Gladio is ATM but he's not here.
[He stared at the phone for a moment and then rolled his eyes and laughed.
He stepped back from Mark 85 and shook his head. In the next few moments, Era would receive a picture of Tony in the backyard standing over a metal contraption he was clearly working on. His hair was messy and there was a smudge of grease on his jaw and forehead. He had jeans and a slightly dusty and sweaty t-shirt on. He had a wrench in one hand and was giving her a wave with the other. Besides all that, he gave her a smile.]
Just me. I'm not sure where Gladio is ATM but he's not here.
Thanks for the tip. This used to be a bed frame.
And I don’t know of anything specific that I would just forbid like that. We’ve just got to to be flexible when one of us has reached our limits.
What’s going on?
And I don’t know of anything specific that I would just forbid like that. We’ve just got to to be flexible when one of us has reached our limits.
What’s going on?
I used half of the cutlery not long after I arrived. I would have used more but my fiancé caught on to me.
I do not want to upset you. You seem happy at the moment so I will refrain from saying what is going on, as you are a father and would likely be upset by it.
Instead I will ask what is the 'normal' thing to do when you dislike a sibling's romantic partner but everyone else loves them, and you do not have a good reason for disliking them aside from them unintentionally making you uncomfortable and reminding you of past trauma?
Also this dislike makes your sibling's partner sad, which makes your sibling sad, which makes you sad and feel as though you need to like their partner, and that there is something inherently wrong with you for being unable to like them, and so you believe the best course of action for everyone's happiness is to remove yourself from your sibling's life.
[ She sends a follow-up message a few moments after the first: ]
Please feel free to ignore my question. I will take no offense. I do not mean to add unnecessary burden to you.
Apologies.
I do not want to upset you. You seem happy at the moment so I will refrain from saying what is going on, as you are a father and would likely be upset by it.
Instead I will ask what is the 'normal' thing to do when you dislike a sibling's romantic partner but everyone else loves them, and you do not have a good reason for disliking them aside from them unintentionally making you uncomfortable and reminding you of past trauma?
Also this dislike makes your sibling's partner sad, which makes your sibling sad, which makes you sad and feel as though you need to like their partner, and that there is something inherently wrong with you for being unable to like them, and so you believe the best course of action for everyone's happiness is to remove yourself from your sibling's life.
[ She sends a follow-up message a few moments after the first: ]
Please feel free to ignore my question. I will take no offense. I do not mean to add unnecessary burden to you.
Apologies.
[He had to raise an eyebrow at the early stuff but the rest of it had him setting down his wrench and taking a seat in one of the chairs on the patio. He sighed.]
Do you message everyone with that kind of disclaimer at the beginning of your message?
The rest, I'm needing a moment to think on how to respond.
Do you message everyone with that kind of disclaimer at the beginning of your message?
The rest, I'm needing a moment to think on how to respond.
No, not everyone. It is not often relevant.
I have never disliked someone undeserving of it before.
I thought being polite yet distant would be adequate, but they asked something of me during my wedding I took offense to and I answered perhaps too bluntly. I did not know it was upsetting until a sennight later, and things have continued to go downhill since.
I have never disliked someone undeserving of it before.
I thought being polite yet distant would be adequate, but they asked something of me during my wedding I took offense to and I answered perhaps too bluntly. I did not know it was upsetting until a sennight later, and things have continued to go downhill since.
[Tony sighed.]
I mean with your texts. Do you always put these disclaimers in your texts with your friends?
That part. The kind of preamble or disclaimer can make people wary of whatever you're about to say. It's too formal and unnecessary. If you're talking to a friend, they already know this. It's like saying 'I'm about to hit you and it'll hurt. However, because I'm warning you, you can't be mad.' Try and take that out of your language. I bet you'll see your friends relax.
Okay about the brother and sibling stuff.
You're very easy to offend, Era. Remember the example I used about having a wound and not wanting people anywhere near it? It hurts and it's natural to want to be cautious of going anywhere near it.
Part of your love for your sibling, is respecting and being kind to the people they love. This is a lesson I'm actually currently working on myself. It sucks. It's annoying. They may say things that rub you the wrong way. Deal with it. It's the price of having family but it's worth it. Repeat after me, Era. It's worth it. Please trust me on that.
So as much as it kills you. Suck it up and go apologize to her and don't put your sibling in the middle. It's not fair to them and if you care about them, it'll be worth it.
[And dear god was it a tough lesson! It sucks and he was trying. He knew he was being such a hypocrite, but it was the best advice even if he was struggling to do it. He hoped whoever this brother and significant other were that they didn't make him regret this.]
I mean with your texts. Do you always put these disclaimers in your texts with your friends?
I do not want to upset you. You seem happy at the moment so I will refrain from saying what is going on, as you are a father and would likely be upset by it.
That part. The kind of preamble or disclaimer can make people wary of whatever you're about to say. It's too formal and unnecessary. If you're talking to a friend, they already know this. It's like saying 'I'm about to hit you and it'll hurt. However, because I'm warning you, you can't be mad.' Try and take that out of your language. I bet you'll see your friends relax.
Okay about the brother and sibling stuff.
You're very easy to offend, Era. Remember the example I used about having a wound and not wanting people anywhere near it? It hurts and it's natural to want to be cautious of going anywhere near it.
Part of your love for your sibling, is respecting and being kind to the people they love. This is a lesson I'm actually currently working on myself. It sucks. It's annoying. They may say things that rub you the wrong way. Deal with it. It's the price of having family but it's worth it. Repeat after me, Era. It's worth it. Please trust me on that.
So as much as it kills you. Suck it up and go apologize to her and don't put your sibling in the middle. It's not fair to them and if you care about them, it'll be worth it.
[And dear god was it a tough lesson! It sucks and he was trying. He knew he was being such a hypocrite, but it was the best advice even if he was struggling to do it. He hoped whoever this brother and significant other were that they didn't make him regret this.]
No, because they are usually not necessary. I do not intend them as a way to excuse any hurt I cause. I was trying to ask what to avoid speaking of, lest you get angry. You could not answer, so I judged the risk too high.
It was my wedding. There were rows of empty seats for family that I have not seen in two years and who I miss every single day.
She approached me at the reception. I told her about my siblings. I thought it was going well.
Then she said my brother had said they were family, and asked if that made us sisters.
It made me feel so sick. It hurt. I told her that I trust my sisters. I do not trust her.
She seemed sad and asked if that was too presumptuous. I said it was, because it was, but I didn't want to upset her so I told her why I don't trust her. I suppose I thought if she knew why it would help it hurt less, or at the very least help her understand the reasoning.
I don't know her. Over a year of chances and she's never let me get to know her, either, even when I still put in the effort to try. That is her right, but she cannot expect us to suddenly be sisters just because she is a part of his life.
We never had a relationship that would warrant her asking such a thing in the first place. To ask me on that day was offensive to me.
I cannot apologize because it would feel disingenuous, and she deserves better than a disingenuous apology.
I was always polite to the best of my ability, and have always respected their relationship even though I dislike her. Why was that not enough?
He loves her and she makes him happy. I respect that a great deal. It is why I removed myself from the equation once it was clear I couldn't force myself to like her. I tried to keep my distance but she is everywhere, and everyone loves her. She fits in very well. I do not.
Leaving seemed the most logical choice. I was the outlier, and offered them nothing of benefit—only detriment. Everyone would be happier without me messing everything up.
So I don't understand why they are not.
It was my wedding. There were rows of empty seats for family that I have not seen in two years and who I miss every single day.
She approached me at the reception. I told her about my siblings. I thought it was going well.
Then she said my brother had said they were family, and asked if that made us sisters.
It made me feel so sick. It hurt. I told her that I trust my sisters. I do not trust her.
She seemed sad and asked if that was too presumptuous. I said it was, because it was, but I didn't want to upset her so I told her why I don't trust her. I suppose I thought if she knew why it would help it hurt less, or at the very least help her understand the reasoning.
I don't know her. Over a year of chances and she's never let me get to know her, either, even when I still put in the effort to try. That is her right, but she cannot expect us to suddenly be sisters just because she is a part of his life.
We never had a relationship that would warrant her asking such a thing in the first place. To ask me on that day was offensive to me.
I cannot apologize because it would feel disingenuous, and she deserves better than a disingenuous apology.
I was always polite to the best of my ability, and have always respected their relationship even though I dislike her. Why was that not enough?
He loves her and she makes him happy. I respect that a great deal. It is why I removed myself from the equation once it was clear I couldn't force myself to like her. I tried to keep my distance but she is everywhere, and everyone loves her. She fits in very well. I do not.
Leaving seemed the most logical choice. I was the outlier, and offered them nothing of benefit—only detriment. Everyone would be happier without me messing everything up.
So I don't understand why they are not.
[Tony winced, feeling bad for whoever this girl was.]
Okay. Let's break this down a bit since there are a lot of parts and that's why it's so complicated. Would that be alright?
First, your wedding day you have some leeway to be crazy because most people are under a lot of stress. You just said you had rows of empty seats for family who weren't there, right? So that injury you want people to stay away from, the deep heart that you started the day with, is feeling sad your family from back home weren't there. Would you say that part is accurate?
Okay. Let's break this down a bit since there are a lot of parts and that's why it's so complicated. Would that be alright?
First, your wedding day you have some leeway to be crazy because most people are under a lot of stress. You just said you had rows of empty seats for family who weren't there, right? So that injury you want people to stay away from, the deep heart that you started the day with, is feeling sad your family from back home weren't there. Would you say that part is accurate?
[Progress! This was good. He doesn't think they've ever been on the same page before.]
Okay, good. So based on what you just told me, this girl is dating your brother and asks if that makes you sisters.
I can understand where that is a sensitive topic for you, but if this girl does end up marrying your brother, what is she? She's your sister-in-law, which is a type of sister. Is she the same kind of sister that you have back home who I'm sure you're missing and trust with everything? No. Does it matter that she's not technically married to your brother yet? Not really. In-laws are a very tricky part of family politics, but they're valid.
So unfortunately, kiddo, you were in the wrong here. It sucks and I know she accidentally hit on a bad topic, but the punishment didn't fit the crime. Shooting her down like that was wrong. And have you noticed, I haven't said a word about her knowing the intricate details of why you snapped at her? It's because it doesn't matter. This isn't about her and your sisters. It's about you and her. She's your sister-in-law and that was her attempt to welcome you to the family, not attack you.
However, there are three other parts to this: the issue of you not trusting her and why, whether or not you can give her a genuine apology, and the fact you've removed yourself from the equation which has me concerned.
Want to talk more about the sister thing or want me to keep going? What would be most beneficial to you?
Okay, good. So based on what you just told me, this girl is dating your brother and asks if that makes you sisters.
I can understand where that is a sensitive topic for you, but if this girl does end up marrying your brother, what is she? She's your sister-in-law, which is a type of sister. Is she the same kind of sister that you have back home who I'm sure you're missing and trust with everything? No. Does it matter that she's not technically married to your brother yet? Not really. In-laws are a very tricky part of family politics, but they're valid.
So unfortunately, kiddo, you were in the wrong here. It sucks and I know she accidentally hit on a bad topic, but the punishment didn't fit the crime. Shooting her down like that was wrong. And have you noticed, I haven't said a word about her knowing the intricate details of why you snapped at her? It's because it doesn't matter. This isn't about her and your sisters. It's about you and her. She's your sister-in-law and that was her attempt to welcome you to the family, not attack you.
However, there are three other parts to this: the issue of you not trusting her and why, whether or not you can give her a genuine apology, and the fact you've removed yourself from the equation which has me concerned.
Want to talk more about the sister thing or want me to keep going? What would be most beneficial to you?
He is not my brother by blood or by law. She would just be the person he chose to marry.
It was not her 'welcoming me to the family', and I am aware it was not an attack. It was a fucking stupid, invasive question, especially given the context of the conversation we had been having.
There is no 'punishment'. I simply told her the truth. I do not trust her. I do not trust her because I do not know her. I refuse to leave myself open and vulnerable to her any longer when there is no reciprocation. She has never respected the boundaries I set because she is too naive and clueless.
I was happy to answer his relationship questions, knowing full well who he was with. I was fine being supportive, but otherwise uninvolved. I just kept my distance from her, minding my own business, because for some reason she causes my PTSD to flare up and I cannot keep pushing through it.
It is a 'brother's girlfriend' thing, not a 'sister' thing.
It was not her 'welcoming me to the family', and I am aware it was not an attack. It was a fucking stupid, invasive question, especially given the context of the conversation we had been having.
There is no 'punishment'. I simply told her the truth. I do not trust her. I do not trust her because I do not know her. I refuse to leave myself open and vulnerable to her any longer when there is no reciprocation. She has never respected the boundaries I set because she is too naive and clueless.
I was happy to answer his relationship questions, knowing full well who he was with. I was fine being supportive, but otherwise uninvolved. I just kept my distance from her, minding my own business, because for some reason she causes my PTSD to flare up and I cannot keep pushing through it.
It is a 'brother's girlfriend' thing, not a 'sister' thing.
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That doesn't matter. Family is family whether it's by blood or one build from the heart. And who she is matters or you don't give a shit about him. You can't have it both ways. You can't be in a family and not be someone's family.
It wasn't stupid or invasive. It was a really common thing for young women to say to each other at a wedding in my culture. It sounds like this girl is from somewhere similar. You know, why don't you ask Aerith and Pyra about it? They might have similar traditions and they're about the marrying age.
It's how families work. It doesn't sound like you understand how to be a friend or a sister to your brother. You can't be so selfish and petty. It's not healthy and definitely not fair to them. I don't understand, why would you want to live like this? Aren't you tired of being alone and the anger and the fighting? You have a chance at something to cherish and that's family you've found, not the kind you're born with.
Talk to Sully and Ardy, Era. You're not being fair to anyone, including yourself acting like this. You're missing out on some of the best things life has to offer because you're holding on the your pride. Trust me, I've done the same thing. Nothing I do will give me more time with my daughter or wife. Don't let this illness take anything more from you than it already has.
It wasn't stupid or invasive. It was a really common thing for young women to say to each other at a wedding in my culture. It sounds like this girl is from somewhere similar. You know, why don't you ask Aerith and Pyra about it? They might have similar traditions and they're about the marrying age.
It's how families work. It doesn't sound like you understand how to be a friend or a sister to your brother. You can't be so selfish and petty. It's not healthy and definitely not fair to them. I don't understand, why would you want to live like this? Aren't you tired of being alone and the anger and the fighting? You have a chance at something to cherish and that's family you've found, not the kind you're born with.
Talk to Sully and Ardy, Era. You're not being fair to anyone, including yourself acting like this. You're missing out on some of the best things life has to offer because you're holding on the your pride. Trust me, I've done the same thing. Nothing I do will give me more time with my daughter or wife. Don't let this illness take anything more from you than it already has.
I guess I don't give a shit about Noctis. Which is why I did him the favour of removing myself from his family.
I know nothing about Pyra because, despite opening up and telling her deeply personal things in answer to her prying questions, she would deflect every attempt of learning anything about her. Then she wonders why I am cold and distant, as if I'm meant to spill all my secrets to her like everyone else does. I already gave her more than enough. More than I was comfortable with. I was not given the same courtesy of trust in return, and so I am done with her.
I tried to make it work, but I was tired of being the only one to make any compromises. She keeps doing the same thing over and over without success. She does not change. I cannot blame her for being ignorant, but I can blame her for remaining that way. I am allowed to not like someone. It's allowed, isn't it?
I do not have a family I was born with. I did not exist, and then I did. I had no memories. I had knowledge but no context. I lived in the streets of Ul'dah, alone, starving, and afraid.
When I was three months old I woke to a man dragging me up by my hair. He held a knife to my throat. I grabbed the blade and killed him with it. It was the first time I ever hurt anyone, but if I didn't fight I would have been sold.
A few months later I was found by the organization that would become my family, but Pyra reminds me of that night and the weeks preceding it.
Why would I talk to Ardyn about this? He adores Noctis and Pyra. I would not involve him in this, even if he knew enough to help.
I have Hades and I have Ardbert. I have Hythlo and Peki and Seto. I don't need anything else. They are the best things life has to offer, and are far more than I deserve.
I know nothing about Pyra because, despite opening up and telling her deeply personal things in answer to her prying questions, she would deflect every attempt of learning anything about her. Then she wonders why I am cold and distant, as if I'm meant to spill all my secrets to her like everyone else does. I already gave her more than enough. More than I was comfortable with. I was not given the same courtesy of trust in return, and so I am done with her.
I tried to make it work, but I was tired of being the only one to make any compromises. She keeps doing the same thing over and over without success. She does not change. I cannot blame her for being ignorant, but I can blame her for remaining that way. I am allowed to not like someone. It's allowed, isn't it?
I do not have a family I was born with. I did not exist, and then I did. I had no memories. I had knowledge but no context. I lived in the streets of Ul'dah, alone, starving, and afraid.
When I was three months old I woke to a man dragging me up by my hair. He held a knife to my throat. I grabbed the blade and killed him with it. It was the first time I ever hurt anyone, but if I didn't fight I would have been sold.
A few months later I was found by the organization that would become my family, but Pyra reminds me of that night and the weeks preceding it.
Why would I talk to Ardyn about this? He adores Noctis and Pyra. I would not involve him in this, even if he knew enough to help.
I have Hades and I have Ardbert. I have Hythlo and Peki and Seto. I don't need anything else. They are the best things life has to offer, and are far more than I deserve.
[Oh.. shit. This was awkward, but maybe he could still do some good here. Hopefully?]
Era that's bullshit. You're talking like a child who didn't get what she wanted and is throwing a tantrum. Stop it. I was trying to get you to admit you do care about Noctis because clearly you do. You wouldn't have brought up this story if you didn't. So if you care about him then you have to deal with Pyra.
And how exactly have you tried to make it work? Did you tell her that it bothered you she wasn't sharing personal things like you were before blowing up? Did you give her some time to correct the behavior or offer some help if she was struggling to do that? Did you give her a chance to explain why it might be hard for her? That's what an adult would do.
Are you at all aware of how self-centered all of what you're telling me is? What happened to you is awful and it's disgusting someone would do that to you. Pyra didn't do it! She didn't come close to doing that. If she reminded you of that then that's a screw that's loose in your brain from your condition, not something she's done. She's a good person and I don't believe some like Noctis would be with anyone who would do anything to intentionally hurt you like that. Do you?
Look, I'm not saying she's perfect. I know her and yeah, it is frustrating she won't open up. You don't have the monopoly on suffering, Era. As bad as it feels and as horrible a thing as you've endured, Pyra just might have been through something worse. We don't know. She hasn't told us. It's her right not to tell us. She doesn't owe that to us. If she hasn't told you, then you haven't made her feel safe enough to tell you or you haven't given her enough time and that's your fault. If you told her anything that was your choice. Take ownership of your actions. Time to put your big girl pants on.
Ardyn? No, I'm talking about your boyfriend and your husband. Ardy = Ardbert and Sully = Solus zos Galvus. Who the hell is Hades and those other three?
It might be the best for you while you're still working through these issues that you leave them alone. There's a difference though between being an adult and leaving someone alone and being a child about it. An adult simply does it because it's about healing themselves and doesn't need to make a declaration about it or text the person a hundred times reminding them that they're being ignored. A child's is all about hurting the other person and sends passive aggressive messages and will hide in the closet while being on a voice chat with someone so they look so pitiful and helpless. Which one are you going to do?
Era that's bullshit. You're talking like a child who didn't get what she wanted and is throwing a tantrum. Stop it. I was trying to get you to admit you do care about Noctis because clearly you do. You wouldn't have brought up this story if you didn't. So if you care about him then you have to deal with Pyra.
And how exactly have you tried to make it work? Did you tell her that it bothered you she wasn't sharing personal things like you were before blowing up? Did you give her some time to correct the behavior or offer some help if she was struggling to do that? Did you give her a chance to explain why it might be hard for her? That's what an adult would do.
Are you at all aware of how self-centered all of what you're telling me is? What happened to you is awful and it's disgusting someone would do that to you. Pyra didn't do it! She didn't come close to doing that. If she reminded you of that then that's a screw that's loose in your brain from your condition, not something she's done. She's a good person and I don't believe some like Noctis would be with anyone who would do anything to intentionally hurt you like that. Do you?
Look, I'm not saying she's perfect. I know her and yeah, it is frustrating she won't open up. You don't have the monopoly on suffering, Era. As bad as it feels and as horrible a thing as you've endured, Pyra just might have been through something worse. We don't know. She hasn't told us. It's her right not to tell us. She doesn't owe that to us. If she hasn't told you, then you haven't made her feel safe enough to tell you or you haven't given her enough time and that's your fault. If you told her anything that was your choice. Take ownership of your actions. Time to put your big girl pants on.
Ardyn? No, I'm talking about your boyfriend and your husband. Ardy = Ardbert and Sully = Solus zos Galvus. Who the hell is Hades and those other three?
It might be the best for you while you're still working through these issues that you leave them alone. There's a difference though between being an adult and leaving someone alone and being a child about it. An adult simply does it because it's about healing themselves and doesn't need to make a declaration about it or text the person a hundred times reminding them that they're being ignored. A child's is all about hurting the other person and sends passive aggressive messages and will hide in the closet while being on a voice chat with someone so they look so pitiful and helpless. Which one are you going to do?
Ah, no, we simply tried killing each other.
[This is offered completely deadpan and without so much as missing a beat as he steps inside - while he does mean it as an example of his own brand of humor it is also the truth. How much more of the context for it he means to answer is a little more up in the air - and the whistle of the kettle spares him from needing to.]
Sugar, and a little lemon.
[The phrase "zip drive", on the other hand, means absolutely nothing to him. Still, he does at least know what a coffee table is, and once Tony starts making his way towards the kitchen, he drifts off to the table in question, as much out of curiosity as anything.
It's only once he actually catches sight of the zip drive that recognition dawns.]
Ah. A tomestone.
[This is murmured mostly to himself, though in all fairness, he's not exactly paying attention to whether or not Tony is close enough to overhear the comment.]
[This is offered completely deadpan and without so much as missing a beat as he steps inside - while he does mean it as an example of his own brand of humor it is also the truth. How much more of the context for it he means to answer is a little more up in the air - and the whistle of the kettle spares him from needing to.]
Sugar, and a little lemon.
[The phrase "zip drive", on the other hand, means absolutely nothing to him. Still, he does at least know what a coffee table is, and once Tony starts making his way towards the kitchen, he drifts off to the table in question, as much out of curiosity as anything.
It's only once he actually catches sight of the zip drive that recognition dawns.]
Ah. A tomestone.
[This is murmured mostly to himself, though in all fairness, he's not exactly paying attention to whether or not Tony is close enough to overhear the comment.]
Ha!
[Tony was starting to like this guy.
It took him a just a minute to get the lemon wedge and tea. Bringing it back he passed it over and sat down, gesturing for the other man to do so too if he hadn't already. He, unfortunately, missed the word Solus used.]
So Sully, how've you been? I can't be too popular at your household right now.
[Tony was starting to like this guy.
It took him a just a minute to get the lemon wedge and tea. Bringing it back he passed it over and sat down, gesturing for the other man to do so too if he hadn't already. He, unfortunately, missed the word Solus used.]
So Sully, how've you been? I can't be too popular at your household right now.
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